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Playing the Game You Want to Win You're not going Playing the Game You Want to Win You're not going to win at Scrabble if you're playing by the rules for Monopoly. You're not going to win at poker if you're playing by the rules for solitaire. You're not going to win a soccer match if you play it like baseball. It's always a risky bet for me to use a sports analogy, given that I mostly have no idea what I'm talking about, but I'll go out on a limb and say that I'm pretty sure you won't win a tennis match if you play it like basketball. And you're not going to win at getting what you really want if you're only playing for what you think you can get. Those are not the same games. If, as the saying goes, we're always winning the game we're playing, then I presume we'd want to make sure we're playing the right one. By "right" I don't mean the opposite of wrong; I mean the game you actually want to win. I bet sometimes you might think you aren't winning at all, right? Well, hang tight, because I think you probably are, whether you like it or not. By the way, that last part, about whether or not you like what you're winning? That's very important foreshadowing. I have a perfect example. Let's talk, for a moment, about my illustrious acting career. Get excited. Click the link in bio to continue reading.
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