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  • Why Discipline Isn’t Working For You
  • How to Start Over Again & Why It’s So Hard
  • Everyone’s Languishing and Here’s What That Means
  • How to Stop Being a Failure
  • The Problem with 2-in-1 Shampoo
  • What To Do When You Can’t Even
  • Why Positive Thinking is Making You Miserable
  • The Real Cost of Putting It on Credit
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  • Why People Make You Feel Bad
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This is what joy looks like to me these days. 🐶 This is what joy looks like to me these days. 🐶 I love this little dude so much. 🐱 Lookit! Hermes being sociable! 🌸 This is the first year all the rhododendrons bloomed at the same time! Backyard oasis is complete! Since it's where our adventure and connection are going to be happening, we decided to make it comfortable!
Why Discipline Isn’t Working For You +++++ Hav Why Discipline Isn’t Working For You +++++ Have you ever wished you had more discipline? Or known someone who seems to have the stuff in spades, and seems to be able to just get on with doing whatever they say they’re going to do? What strange magic is that? Who are these herculean people who seem to have been born with near-mythical amounts of discipline and where can we get some, please? I bet there are at least a few things that you would change about your routines, if you could wave a magic wand and Poof! a new habit into place. Maybe you’ve thought about becoming an early riser, a person who works out in the morning, or, for that matter, a person who works out, period. Maybe you’ve contemplated creating a writing habit, or changing your diet to eat more healthy, homemade foods. “I’d love to do X, but I just don’t have enough discipline,” you’ve shared with a sigh, while your friends nodded in empathetic agreement. They know what you mean, because they’ve witnessed your attempts, or at least your sighing about it, for years. After all, they feel the same exact way about their own lack of self discipline. You want to make the change, but you already know you don’t have what it takes. It’s just too frigging hard, isn’t it, to make yourself do what you say you want to do. You know, because you’ve tried before, in the past, sort of. I say “sort of” because we both know it was a pretty half-hearted effort that fizzled out when it didn’t work out perfect the first, second or even — I’m being generous here — third attempt. What you need, you believe, is more discipline. I’m gonna go ahead and say that I heartily disagree on the more-discipline front. I don’t think that discipline is what you’re lacking. I mean, it might be that you have less discipline than billions of other people, but it’s actually not the first place I’d suggest we should be looking to see what’s missing. Discipline only works when it’s inside a commitment. > > > CONTINUE READING AT LINK IN BIO: @bayleblancquiney #motivation #personalgrowth #discipline #makechange #empowered #mindsetmatters #coaching
You can almost smell them, can’t you? I love lil You can almost smell them, can’t you? I love lilac season. ❤️ Also, I gotta hand it to Grimby: he’s a creature who knows how to go after what he wants. In this case, sunbeams. 🐶☀️❤️
A mom is someone who gets up, even though she is d A mom is someone who gets up, even though she is decidedly not a morning person (sorry mom, but we know it’s true😉) at stupid o'clock early to find a good spot to cheer on her daughter at a Disneyland race, even though she could have slept in and come by later just for the very end. And then shares a cup of tea. Or maybe shares a teacup. 🤓 Thank you for all the sacrifice and love and cheerleading, mom. ❤️ For all the mamas, for all you do, thank you. We literally wouldn’t be here without you. ❤️
How To Start Over Again & Why It's So Hard ***** How To Start Over Again & Why It's So Hard ***** Alright, so whether you feel like you’re languishing or whether you feel like you’re dormant, or whether you feel both—for what it’s worth, I don’t think they’re mutually exclusive—you may be feeling a stirring of desire for change or action or just, I don’t know, something to happen. As of late, I can be excited by a cup of coffee I didn’t make in my own kitchen. They say it’s the little things that matter, and I guess that’s true, because that’s about all we’ve got going on these days. The ennui is real. Now there’s a t-shirt idea… Maybe there are new things you’d like to start doing, or old things that have fallen off, but you’d like to take up again. Whether it’s a brand-new thing, or an old-new-again thing, one thing is true: starting is going to require starting. There’s no other way around it. Which brings me to this fairly universal truth: starting things can be hard. Not only do you need to start doing the thing, which might require the formation of a new habit, but also may well require that you let go of or change another habit to make way. This is a vital part of habit creation that I find is often overlooked, to the detriment of creating actual lasting change. Underestimating the amount of structure (time, space, resources and accountability/discipline) it will require to create a new habit is the surest way to make certain that the changes won’t stick and is therefore the best strategy your resistance will employ to keep you stuck. Starting things that you’ve started before and fallen off from, like quitting smoking, eating healthier, getting more exercise, restarting your writing practice, et cetera, can feel even harder than starting something brand new. I think it’s because you’re starting something anew. Starting something new, again. The starting is hard in the first place, and also now you have evidence that you might fail or give up or be The Most Undisciplined Person On Earth. > > > CONTINUE READING AT LINK IN BIO: @bayleblancquiney #motivation #makeithappen
May the Fourth be with you! I’ve been called a May the Fourth be with you! I’ve been called a geek and a nerd my whole life. The coolest part about growing up is that I don’t care. Fly your nerdy, geeky, weirdo flags. Life’s more fun when you let yourself be you. ❤️ P.S. I’m Rebel Alliance all the way (& Jedi in training). #starwars #maythe4thbewithyou #usetheforce
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